About a week ago, I had one of those days.
Nothing catastrophic had happened, but I could feel myself slipping into a place I didn’t want to be. I sat alone on my porch trying to plan the week ahead, yet all I could feel was a heaviness I couldn’t explain.
Maybe you’ve been there too.
When life feels overwhelming, our instinct is often to retreat—to believe we have to carry it alone until it passes.
As I sat there, I remembered something I often encourage others to do.
Reach out.
So I did.
I sent a simple text message to five men I deeply respect. It wasn’t a cry for help. It wasn’t a request for advice. It simply said I was thinking about them, praying they were well, and hoping their families were doing okay.
I had no expectations.
But something unexpected happened.
As I focused on encouraging someone else, the weight I was carrying began to lift.
One by one, the responses came back. Some were brief. Some led to conversations. One person never responded, and that was okay. Because the purpose wasn’t to receive something.
It was to create connection.
That experience reminded me of something we often forget:
Connection is one of the most powerful forms of healing.
Sometimes we wait for someone to call us.
To check on us.
To notice we’re struggling.
But what if healing begins when we’re willing to make the first move?
A simple text.
A phone call.
A message that says, “I was thinking about you.”
You never know what someone else is carrying or how much those few words might mean.
That belief is one of the reasons I wrote Oh Brother, My Brother. I wanted families to have conversations that build trust, strengthen relationships, and remind children they are loved, seen, and never alone.
Because connection doesn’t happen by accident.
It happens on purpose.
So if today feels heavy, don’t isolate yourself.
Reach out.
Encourage someone.
Love someone.
You might discover that the very connection you were searching for begins with you.
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